My grandfather served in the armed forces during the Korean War. Unfortunately, he died when I was very young, so I was unable to pick his brains on the matter. Realistically, he did not like talking about those years anyway. The only comment he would mention was that war was a terrible,terrible time for all those involved. When he said all those involved, this went past soldiers. He meant everyone, mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, children, and many more.
In fact, sometimes it can be more difficult for those not involved, although obviously those involved face severe challenges. The difference being the fact that the possible outcomes are completely out of their control. On a day that the soldiers are not active, the family members have no idea, and feel just as nervous as a day when their loved one is in action. This lack of control burdens many people every day.
Being a military wife and military husband differs greatly. Firstly, in a way similar to the nuclear family, it is exceedingly difficult for men to play the "house keeping" role. There is an almost emasculating factor, of "letting your wife do the fighting". On the other hand, it is still extremely difficult on women. They must attempt to stay strong in the absence of the male, in the most dyer times. Overall, it is more similar than different. Military husbands and wives still face the unbelievable challenge of living their life, while your loved ones could potentially lose their's.
The military has always been a forefront for social change. The civil rights movement took a strong foothold when Truman desegregated the troops. A similar struggle takes place daily with homosexuals and females. Currently, the "Don't ask, Don't tell" system is in affect. For a multitude of reasons, this is ineffective and a cowardly attempt at equality. There are arguments, some more valid then others, against active duty homosexuals, but truthfully, a soldier is a soldier. Anyone should be able to defend their country.
Active duty females also face challenges. Many are assaulted by their male counterparts and discriminated against for their sexuality. Men often do not wish to fight alongside woman, although most do not abstain to other involvement. Once again, there are many arguments, some valid and some not. Again, if women are capable and willing, they should be allowed to participate in any capacity.
The depiction of military men, and women differs in the media. One specific TV show, "The Last Ship" involves both genders. The women are overall shown as struggling to be "manly". They often fight the showing of emotion and are in a constant battle for respect, while men seem to be inherently respected. One large issue on the show is the fact that one soldier impregnates the female soldier. The ship is somewhat compromised by their situation and this is a real issue. Overall, I am impressed by the depiction of the females. They are tough and often the heroine of the battles. However, it is the men who do the "heavy lifting".
As stated earlier, the armed forces have always been at the forefront of social issues. Generally, a group begins to gain traction in their battle for equality, and then the fight moves on to the armed forces. I expect this battle to be be no different, and homosexuals and women willing and able to battle will gain that right.
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